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In Memory Of Mary Kathleen Battisby-Dutton

A beautiful wife and mother


DAVID AND MARY MARRIED 11th OCTOBER 1969 IN SURREY.

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Mary and Raymond.

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Mary and Roderick

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Mary and Roderick in Brussels 1972

Obituary in Mayo News posted by Michael Sargent, Marys' brother in law.
 
The death has occurred in York, England, of Mary Battisby-Dutton at the age of 59, following a long illness. Mary was born in Westport on 8th December 1944, the second daughter of Freddy Clarke (Dugort, Achill) and Ada Fair, sister of the late Albert Panny) Fair, of Deerpark East, Westport. After the death of her mother in 1947, Mary continued to live with her father in Westport. In 1952 she moved to England and was brought up, together with their three children, by her half sister Marion, who died in 1987, and her husband Raymond Gill, a native of Westport, who has also recently died in England.
 
Mary attended Holy Trinity School in Westport, and was fondly remembered by her teacher, the late Mrs. Henderson, who would always ask after her when she met family members on holiday in Mayo.
 
After growing up in Surrey Mary trained as a nurse at St. Helier Hospital, Carshalton, Surrey, and worked at various hospitals in the London area before marrying her husband, David, from Aberdeen, who worked for the British Foreign Office. Accompanying David on his foreign postings, she lived in Brussels, New Delhi, Geneva, Lagos, and Wellington, New Zealand. She had two children, Roderick and Fiona. After Davids retirement from the Foreign Office, Mary and David moved to Yorkshire. When she could, Mary continued her work as a nurse, her final job being in a care home in Bedale, Yorkshire.
 

The care she gave to others was returned to her in abundance during the final stages of her illness when she was a patient in St. Leonards Hospice, York. The nursing care was exemplary, and her daughter Fiona was able to move to York to provide extra support for her at the end. She died at 1.30 in the morning on 19th February, in the presence of David, Fiona, and her sister Brigid. 

Perhaps there are readers of the Mayo News who will remember the little girl walking down to school from Peter Street to the Newport Road, with her striking head of auburn hair, and wonder what became of her. Mary had a kind and generous nature, soft warm voice, and tendency to get the giggles.

She is deeply mourned by her devoted husband David, children Roderick and Fiona, grandchildren Ciarán and Declan, sister Brigid, Gill relatives Sally, Patrick and Marion, the Clarke family, and Maureen Fair and her daughters.

May she rest in peace, and rise in glory

 
 

Mary and Fiona in New Delhi
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MARY AND 'DAD', RAYMOND GILL WHO PASSED AWAY THREE DAYS BEFORE MARY. Grandad we miss you. x

THIS SITE IS DEDICATED TO DAVID AND FIONA, WHO WERE CONSTANTLY AT MARYS' SIDE, 24 HOURS A DAY IN THE LAST FEW MONTHS OF HER LIFE. WORDS CANNOT DESCRIBE THE LOVE WE FEEL FOR BOTH OF THEM FOR THE SACRIFICES THEY MADE TO HELP MARY THROUGH TO THE VERY END. AND SIMPLY...JUST FOR BEING WHO YOU ARE.
 
ALSO TO BRIGID, MARYS' SISTER, WHO WAS THERE AS MARY LEFT US.
 
ALL OUR LOVE TO MARYS' SISTERS SALLY AND MOLLY AND BROTHER PATRICK WHO HAD TO ENDURE LOSING THEIR FATHER ALSO IN THE SAME WEEK.
 
NOT FORGETTING MICHAEL WHO HAS ALWAYS BEEN THERE AND ALL THE REST OF OUR WONDERFUL FAMILY TOO NUMEROUS TO MENTION.
 
Roderick,Ciarán and Declan.

David, Mary and Roderick

Declan, Roderick and Ciarán
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A Dhia, deonaigh dom an suaimhneas chun glacadh le rudaí nach féidir liom a athrú, misneach chun rudaí a athrú nuair is féidir, agus gaois chun an difríocht a aithint.
 
God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

 

 


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